The idea of Enrollment
sparks several viewpoints for me. I
often tell my daughter “Sometimes the answer is no,” when she is insistent
about one thing or another. Children seem to naturally demonstrate Enrollment, from the time that they are
able to talk. UCLA did a study a few years ago, which indicated that the
average one-year old child hears the word “No” 400 times a day by their
parents. What may naturally begin as Enrollment, is drowned by the time we
all hit adolescence. The rejected feeling of so many No’s can create the
“dampened downward spiral “ feelings that are mentioned in the text.
Unfortunately, we have to re-learn the idea of partnership and trust that
exists in children.
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Developing a mind state of being present in the way things
are, is a powerful lesson. I’ve often heard the phrase “Things are what they
are.” Accepting that-things are what they are involves a different level of
understanding and application. The author describes this “present” state of
being, as a frame of mind that accepts what shows up willingly, and moves
forward from that point. Thinking and reacting to life’s circumstances will
surely help us avoid the “downward spiral” syndrome.
This week’s reading helped me to remember to focus on the
larger beauty of life, and not the small stuff, that will interrupt an
otherwise normal day. My attention needs
to be ever focused on what is happening now, and what I chose to happen next.
Since I never know what will show up, I must remember that my attitude needs to
remain one of gratitude, regardless of the circumstance. This mind-set, will
ensure that I am “On Board.”
I am certain that we live in a world of illusions. It is
written in the NIV Bible that “Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall
see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am
fully known.”(1 Corinthians 13:12). Many of us navigate the world, not
realizing that we have created the framework for our experiences. I found that
Chapter 12’s emphasis on the “We” was very profound. This lesson helps to
remind us that our individual strengths, contributions, opinions etc., are
useless without other people. When we
develop the ability to see ourselves as part of the whole, as opposed to separate
from the whole, we are able to live a more realistic life.





